I do not know your ages but based on the information you have given, you both sound very young. My first thought is that there appears to be a maturity issue going on. If you truly love him, your desire is for his best … with or without him. Continue to pray for him, yourself and the relationship. Try to refrain from contacting him and allow God to show you the next step. For good or for bad, most men find their identity and purpose in their job and your ex-boyfriend probably needs some time to establish that identity along with making his new home his “castle.”Īt the same time, work on yourself apart from him. At this point, give him some space to get settled into his new home and job. His response to you may mean he loves you, but not currently be in love with you. It sounds like you’ve made quite an effort to stay in touch and pursue a relationship after he broke up with you. However, as much as we pray, listen to God’s voice and see his leading, sometimes things don’t work out exactly as we hope, pray and want for ourselves. You were supportive of his activities and have stayed true. Over the years, you seem to have had quite a history with your ex-boyfriend and have stood by him through many seasons in his life. While they can bring incredible delight and enjoyment, they can also be the source of much frustration and hardship, as you have experienced. ![]() Relationships can be extremely confusing and baffling at times. Do I give him the space and just keep hoping we'll find our way back? I texted him a few more times without response. Yesterday I asked if he loved me, and he said yes he loves me and that was the end of that. I was there through the struggles when he played football I was at every game recording them, and was there when he didn't really have his own and now he does. He broke up with me saying it's not the right time, and I know he has a lot on his plate…he's working at a job where it takes a lot of his time and his mom is very demanding of his time too. If you've got a question about anything related to singleness or living the single life, please submit it to (selected questions will be posted anonymously).Ĭurrently I'm going through a breakup I was with this man almost 4 years, and it was amazing most of the time-we were so connected to God in the beginning. ![]() EDITOR'S NOTE: He Said-She Said is a biweekly advice column for singles featuring a question from a reader with responses from a male and female point of view.
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